Do not be afraid to get married and get married

The benefit will accrue to you in all circumstances. If you marry a good woman, you will have a life of reassurance, and you will live a happy and virtuous life, and you will be among the successful, and it is a blessing among the worlds. But if you marry a not-so-good woman, then your patience with her will win. Perhaps you have come to understand life more and more because many of those who were blessed with not good wives were honored by God with wisdom and compensated for them. If you want to choose your wife, choose her on the basis of contentment. An uncontented wife is of no good, and she will be of calamity and poverty for you. You know this from the beginning, so do not get involved in this life. When You have some time to propose to her to find out her nature. If you find that she loves money and often talks about parties and brands and looks a lot in fashion stores, know that she is not content, and will ask you for money that she cannot stand. The basis of marriage is love and reassurance. If you do not know reassurance with your wife, then there is no point in starting a family that will break up. Soon, engagements in our days have become very long, and I am astonished that a man’s engagement can be prolonged and he does not know the truth about who he has proposed to, and that he sits with his fiancée for long months and does not agree with her on matters of life and the course of the family, and then only stays a few days and divorces her. For this I want us to understand life and learn. From the experiences of others, how long will we ignore the subtleties of matters and fall into what our predecessors fell into? Learn from their experiences and do not put yourselves in the worst place. From the book Life Skills by Ibrahim Al-Shamlan